Most often this question is raised by those parents who can’t find a common language with their child and want to influence him. Although, of course, some simply want to top up their knowledge for a better and proper upbringing of their children. This article will be useful for both.
Our website Love-911 decided to consider what you must to raise children and how to influence them so that it and we are good and useful and doesn’t break them, as individuals, what often happens when we try to influence them, and act incorrectly.
To do this you must understand: when you can impact on the child, and when he only done harm?
Let us consider an example.
You say that the child was dancing and he wants – on knitting, because he doesn’t like dancing and he loves knitting. It is defending its position, and your task is either to convince him that dancing he wants more and more useful. And indeed it is. Either accept that Your arguments it’s only Your desires, but not his.
The fact that parents often forget that the word parent is not a synonym for the words: master, commander, sir.
The parent is a friend, partner, older brother, teacher, boss.
I would like to elaborate on the word – head.
The chief – manages and provides direction, but only Continue reading
What is the effect of alcohol on conception, as reflected by its impact on the health of the unborn baby – this question bothers many. It is best to think about this long before making a decision about the pregnancy, and not a few weeks after the merry party when the test showed a positive result.
Since this question is extremely important for all expectant parents, let’s talk about the effect of alcohol on conception, and learn about its implications.
What are the dangers of “drunk conception”?
The person who is drunk, even the cells of the body are saturated with alcohol. Therefore, in the event of a merger of a saturated alcohol sperm “drunk” the egg, there will be accumulation of degenerative qualities. This will undoubtedly have a negative impact on the developing fetus, and in consequence will affect the health
a child born.
This was known in ancient times. So, for example, in ancient times in Russia did not allow the bride and groom to drink alcohol at the wedding. The laws of Ancient Rome were generally forbidden to drink alcohol to young people under 30 years.
The birth of a new life is in the process of fusion of the paternal and maternal gametes. In the process of the research, it was found that the alcohol Continue reading
How to teach your child to apologize, as in our age of consumption to talk to children about sacrifice and what is most important in Orthodox upbringing? We talk with Dr.
pedagogical Sciences, head of chair of pedagogy of the University, the mother of three children, Tatiana enjoyed.
When you began to study Orthodox pedagogy that struck you as particularly important? Why do you have to go this direction?
When I started studying science, I was shocked by the writings of Vasily Zenkovsky. They gave a different perspective of the relationship to the person, to education, to itself. At the time I was little familiar with Orthodoxy. I Zenkovsky I read about this phrase: “the basis of a person’s identity is the image of God, who is indestructible”. So even if the man himself unrighteous lives, trying to hurt myself, to Escorial this way, he is unable to destroy it. This optimism Orthodox pedagogy inspires me.
Each parent often has his own idea of what an Orthodox upbringing. How has it changed you?
Our eldest daughter was born when I was 21, and her husband 22. We “experimented” on pedagogy and psychology. Went to her and during our neovista. The family began votserkovitsya, when the child was four years. Remember, then on our call: “Anya!” the daughter at first baptized, and then turned around. Then I thought that we overdid that we need to change Continue reading