How to raise a child, not izbalovan it? What to do with spoiled children and what methods of rehabilitation effective?
The desire to surround your child with care and warmth, to give him all the best characteristic of all normal parents. But we want to get the gratitude, not the whims and ever-increasing requirements. How do we walk that fragile line between how to care and nurture, and to spoil?
To give the child warm, to take him in her arms, hugging and kissing, read him bedtime stories, together to play games and watch cartoons — this is normal behavior for loving parents. As to allow the child to Express their thoughts and feelings, to inspire him with confidence. If the kids want to constantly be with their parents, this does not mean that they are spoiled.
The kids with parents who often said he was the most beautiful, intelligent and the best, they begin to believe it and to convince others. It is not surprising that they are more successful in life.
How to understand whether the child is spoiled?
Pampered treat child cranky, overly pampered, which requires parents constant attention. This baby is not used to the fact that he may refuse. He gets on first demand any toy, treats, entertainment. And takes it as self-evident, not requiring even thank him.
The main symptom of the spoiled — emotional instability of the child. Continue reading
The death of children. The children know that they are dying. Episodes of release of the soul from the body. During the transition the children are not alone. Is there any point in a child’s death. Grief of the parents. Eradication of grief.
Now has already published a number of theological and medical books about the death of children. We describe a number of observations, and scientists are trying to rate them. Many do Dr. Kubler-Ross and others.
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross – specialty children’s doctor, a psychiatrist. She writes that the children know that they die, but know it in heart, not the head. They talk about it, not afraid I. die very well. The younger the child, the more he knows.
Children two years and older during a serious illness become more spiritual and serious, as if at once grown-up.
The doctors, sisters, nurses and other people who had seen as children die, indicate that in children, as in adults, facial features shortly before his death, accept the expression of peace and if attention to something.
Kubler-Ross believes that the state of rest and abstraction fatal sign, signifying the proximity of death. Children at this time can already see the dead, especially of those they loved.
Kubler-Ross was not only a doctor but also a friend Continue reading