Question: Hello! Son 7 years old, and he is very upset due to different lesions in the game, in some missions. Playing football with my dad — if it loses, in tears. Any arguments that this is a game and that daddy will not succumb, as the son of strong contender, do not work. Thus, he loses all the time — half-and-half.
The same thing: if takes to cut out a complex shape, it is impossible — in tears.
What to do with it? Soon to school, and he roars… Maria Archangorodskaja.
Meets Love Goloshchapov, child psychologist:
Question about the lack of healthy indifference to the result of their efforts. Well, let’s see.
First of all, for whom are these tears?
If the baby cries when the failure of even being alone with him, it shows his strength of feeling. High emotional stress need to lose – and they do it by tears, the most natural way.
If the baby cries only in the presence of other people is entrenched behavioural response. Speaking in Russian, loved ones react in a certain way (or reacted before) the tears of a child, and now that he wants the adults did it again, presses it into the “button” — the crying son/grandson.
That the child was given in response to my tears?
This is exactly what he lacks, Continue reading
Information technology today fit perfectly in any sphere of human activity. Computerization rather significant and relevant. But, like every new stage brings with it new problems. Among the many challenges the use of computer should highlight the problem of the influence of computer on human health.
Harmful computer for human health?
about the answer to this question does not exist: some experts believe that the computer carries irreparable harm to health and it is better that children not spend all their free time. Others, however, believe that the harm of computer, in compliance with basic safety rules no more dangerous than any other appliances.
Of course, the computer has a negative impact on human health. It has long been recognized that computer work is one of the most stressful and tiring. And about the child’s health, adults need to think long before he sat down at the computer.
Computers have become so ingrained in our lives that those who are not able to be with him, looking askance. Disputes concerning the use and harm of the computer being on all social levels, scientists are conducting research on the impact of computer per person, children arguing with parents, parents with teachers, and so on. Hope Continue reading
To adopt a Russian child, without parental care, German mom and dad are ready to wait for years and to part with big money
“the Law of Dima Yakovlev”, adopted in December by the state Duma of the Russian Federation, could not leave the Germans indifferent. At least because in Germany one left the child has ten sets of parents who dream to adopt him. Unlucky competitors are the only couple who adopted the orphan, seek happiness abroad – as a rule, in Russia and Poland. Many childless Germans, having learned about the new law, think: “Our countries are strategic partners, there are many examples of successful adoption by citizens of Germany young Russians. So why not simplify this process?” German laws are rigidly guarding of childhood – including “the Russian-German”. And the local foster parents in the vast majority belong to the adopted kids with great love. Knowing how many circles of hell they had to go through in order to embody this love in life, cease to treat this question as purely rhetorical.
In the footsteps of the shredder and Jauch
Once again hearing in America the little Russians landed in a poor family with many Continue reading