Punishment in the upbringing of children, the consequences
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Punishment in the upbringing of children, the consequences

Remember the cartoon in which a delinquent child had to correctly place a comma in the sentence “to Execute pardon”. But You asked such a question in those moments, when favorite son or daughter was raskolniki? And where You put the comma?

This article talks about the relationship between the child and parents, on how to punish the kid for bad behavior, in order to avoid mistakes in the upbringing.

How does it start?

But it all begins with the parental home, of family values and environment in which the baby grows. Since the first days of life, he absorbs like a sponge everything that surrounds it. And at this point it is important to grasp the distinction between punishment and the manifestation of an act of child abuse. After all, the purpose of punishment – to convey to the child what he did wrong and to prevent it in the future.

The rules of what is permitted

All parents want to educate exemplary and obedient children. But in fact the result is not quite as desirable. We are all human and entitled to mistakes. Kids are no exception. A broken vase, scattered toys, the next two in mathematics, a call to the principal for bad behavior – learn Continue reading

Child gets upset when plays

 

Question: Hello! Son 7 years old, and he is very upset due to different lesions in the game, in some missions. Playing football with my dad — if it loses, in tears. Any arguments that this is a game and that daddy will not succumb, as the son of strong contender, do not work. Thus, he loses all the time — half-and-half.

The same thing: if takes to cut out a complex shape, it is impossible — in tears.

What to do with it? Soon to school, and he roars… Maria Archangorodskaja.

Meets Love Goloshchapov, child psychologist:

Question about the lack of healthy indifference to the result of their efforts. Well, let’s see.

First of all, for whom are these tears?

If the baby cries when the failure of even being alone with him, it shows his strength of feeling. High emotional stress need to lose – and they do it by tears, the most natural way.

If the baby cries only in the presence of other people is entrenched behavioural response. Speaking in Russian, loved ones react in a certain way (or reacted before) the tears of a child, and now that he wants the adults did it again, presses it into the “button” — the crying son/grandson.

That the child was given in response to my tears?

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Children Should love their parents

 

“The image of woman that a man must love, not consciously formed completely from the image of the mother. And chemically it works: you see an image in your blood is all that needs to stand out, and you stink”, is a business angel Alexander Cirovic believes that the baby doesn’t have to their parents, guilt is wrong, and unconditional love in the adult world can be.

“The image of woman that a man must love, not consciously formed completely from the image of the mother. And chemically it works: you see an image in your blood is all that needs to stand out, and you stink”, is a business angel Alexander Cirovic believes that the baby doesn’t have to their parents, guilt is wrong, and unconditional love in the adult world can be.

Imagine your own child running around with a nuclear bomb and wants to blow up a shopping centre. Surrender you to the police? In fact, it should be knit, if its action is a threat of death to numerous people. I’d have her baby tied. But that would mean that I never loved. To reach the state where your child is going to kill you, means that you in the childhood did very poorly. You hit him, he is still all revenges. I think this nightmare is taken from the setting of “love — marry”. From the fact that a pregnant Continue reading

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Children Should love their parents
  "The image of woman that a man must love, not consciously formed completely from the image of the mother. And chemically it works: you see an image in your…

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