Psychology. Consultation with a psychologist. Socionics
    I have this situacija.Recently divorced her husband.He lived for 7 years with two children.It turned out that he had in the last two years was another woman who…

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The child's Behavior is mirroring the relationship of the parents
  To help parents in the upbringing of cultural behavior among children; to help them see their deficiencies in the process of education and to find ways of addressing them.…

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The Influence of styles of family education on children’s personality development

Today, the family acts as an important factor in personality development. Here the child is born, he receives an initial knowledge about the world and first experience.

Feature of family education is the fact that the family constitutes a mixed-age social group there are representatives of two, three and sometimes four generations. This means different values, different evaluation criteria the phenomena of life, different ideals, opinions, beliefs, and allows you to create some traditions.

Family education is organically connected with the whole life of a growing person. In the family the child is included in the vital activities through all its stages: from basic attempts to pick up a spoon to hammer a nail) to complex social and personal significant forms of behavior.

Family education also has a wide time range effects: it continues throughout a person’s life, occurs at any time of day, any time of the year.

Family climate is the life of the parents, their relationship, family spirit. Children rudeness, callousness, indifference, indiscipline, usually Continue reading

10 forbidden phrases in the child’s upbringing

There are two areas where many consider themselves experts, despite the lack of education: medicine and psychology. But try to fix the TV? Because there are much fewer parts. That’s it, that psychology and child rearing is not an easy thing and about how to raise psychologically strong baby, you can talk for hours. Today we will analyze as to do no harm, what phrases are considered taboo in the child’s upbringing.

1. Prophecy-threats – “behave, never married”, “come to a bad end, that’s for sure!”, “you’re gonna cry because if you do not listen to me”.

These phrases you predict in advance the child of failure. Remember that self-confident and liberated the children of those parents who is always praised. Such children are confident and appreciate yourself. If they fail to do something, they tend to seek the cause in itself, correct. Of course! After all, mom said he was the best of the best. And my mother wouldn’t lie.

– You educate him too harshly.

– Why?

– When I asked him his name, he replied: “Vova Stop”.

2. You can’t do anything. Come on I myself.

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From Russia – with a child

 

To adopt a Russian child, without parental care, German mom and dad are ready to wait for years and to part with big money

“the Law of Dima Yakovlev”, adopted in December by the state Duma of the Russian Federation, could not leave the Germans indifferent. At least because in Germany one left the child has ten sets of parents who dream to adopt him. Unlucky competitors are the only couple who adopted the orphan, seek happiness abroad – as a rule, in Russia and Poland. Many childless Germans, having learned about the new law, think: “Our countries are strategic partners, there are many examples of successful adoption by citizens of Germany young Russians. So why not simplify this process?” German laws are rigidly guarding of childhood – including “the Russian-German”. And the local foster parents in the vast majority belong to the adopted kids with great love. Knowing how many circles of hell they had to go through in order to embody this love in life, cease to treat this question as purely rhetorical.

In the footsteps of the shredder and Jauch

Once again hearing in America the little Russians landed in a poor family with many Continue reading

The Influence of peers on children's personality development
  We all learned that the teachers of the child are adults: parents, relatives, teachers in kindergarten, the teachers at the school. They all play a huge role in the…

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Under-loved children of wealthy parents
for anybody not a secret that there are children who grow up without parents, orphaned children, children living in orphanages, boarding schools... All we know about them, we all feel…

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