for anybody not a secret that there are children who grow up without parents, orphaned children, children living in orphanages, boarding schools… All we know about them, we all feel sorry for them, some even try to help… These children is a tragedy of society, an open wound. We understand that they are deprived of parental warmth, care and love. Here everything is clear: deprived, because no parents. And every bystanders trying to help…
But there are other children children of rich parents, growing in abundance (sometimes in excess), with mom and dad, babysitters, mountains of toys and other pleasures. How they live? You say: chocolate!!! Best of all!! do Not jump to conclusions. It so happened that I work with such children and parents. The film, which opened my eyes, astonished and outraged.
What is for children of rich parents:
1. Image . “How dressed my child (definitely branded expensive stuff) that is able to do (reading in 3 years and 5 already knows 2 languages or not… simply put a genius or not) of my friends judge me. If everything matches the pattern – we cool!!!!”
2. Competition . My child needs to be smarter, stronger, better than other children, or at least to look like that. Continue reading
How to raise a child, not izbalovan it? What to do with spoiled children and what methods of rehabilitation effective?
The desire to surround your child with care and warmth, to give him all the best characteristic of all normal parents. But we want to get the gratitude, not the whims and ever-increasing requirements. How do we walk that fragile line between how to care and nurture, and to spoil?
To give the child warm, to take him in her arms, hugging and kissing, read him bedtime stories, together to play games and watch cartoons — this is normal behavior for loving parents. As to allow the child to Express their thoughts and feelings, to inspire him with confidence. If the kids want to constantly be with their parents, this does not mean that they are spoiled.
The kids with parents who often said he was the most beautiful, intelligent and the best, they begin to believe it and to convince others. It is not surprising that they are more successful in life.
How to understand whether the child is spoiled?
Pampered treat child cranky, overly pampered, which requires parents constant attention. This baby is not used to the fact that he may refuse. He gets on first demand any toy, treats, entertainment. And takes it as self-evident, not requiring even thank him.
The main symptom of the spoiled — emotional instability of the child. Continue reading
A very important period of school life – the transition from primary to secondary school. From your support of a child depends on many things: how quickly he will adapt to the new loads and new environment, will continue his self-esteem.
Naturally, with this new period and we, and our children have certain fears and hopes. And the same moments in different children can cause different reactions. Someone much more comfortable feel of previous permanent cozy classroom. For another, the move to a Cabinet system – the long-awaited freedom, welcome variety. Someone stung by parting with his beloved teacher. Another fifth-grader, perhaps, counting on a more positive, impartial attitude to his new teachers.
^ What points you should pay attention to the parents?
– The transition to high school is sometimes in the literal sense of the “new walls”. Indeed, in some schools, elementary classes are in a separate wing of a building or in a separate housing. – Some of the children and is in a new group of classmates. For example, he entered the school or moved to a specialized class.
– There is a “change status”: in elementary school, third grade-fourth graders were the most senior and skilled, Continue reading