There are two areas where many consider themselves experts, despite the lack of education: medicine and psychology. But try to fix the TV? Because there are much fewer parts. That’s it, that psychology and child rearing is not an easy thing and about how to raise psychologically strong baby, you can talk for hours. Today we will analyze as to do no harm, what phrases are considered taboo in the child’s upbringing.
1. Prophecy-threats – “behave, never married”, “come to a bad end, that’s for sure!”, “you’re gonna cry because if you do not listen to me”.
These phrases you predict in advance the child of failure. Remember that self-confident and liberated the children of those parents who is always praised. Such children are confident and appreciate yourself. If they fail to do something, they tend to seek the cause in itself, correct. Of course! After all, mom said he was the best of the best. And my mother wouldn’t lie.
– You educate him too harshly.
– When I asked him his name, he replied: “Vova Stop”.
2. You can’t do anything. Come on I myself.
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To adopt a Russian child, without parental care, German mom and dad are ready to wait for years and to part with big money
“the Law of Dima Yakovlev”, adopted in December by the state Duma of the Russian Federation, could not leave the Germans indifferent. At least because in Germany one left the child has ten sets of parents who dream to adopt him. Unlucky competitors are the only couple who adopted the orphan, seek happiness abroad – as a rule, in Russia and Poland. Many childless Germans, having learned about the new law, think: “Our countries are strategic partners, there are many examples of successful adoption by citizens of Germany young Russians. So why not simplify this process?” German laws are rigidly guarding of childhood – including “the Russian-German”. And the local foster parents in the vast majority belong to the adopted kids with great love. Knowing how many circles of hell they had to go through in order to embody this love in life, cease to treat this question as purely rhetorical.
In the footsteps of the shredder and Jauch
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If your child misbehaves in kindergarten – most likely a consequence of education. If parents do not pay enough attention to the child, then it is because of this lack of attention there, and perhaps that his inappropriate behavior he wants to attract attention. But in kindergarten can not look only for one child. Many children, and everyone needs to take time.
Poor, inadequate behavior of the child in kindergarten leads to disruption of the daily routine. A child with such behavior could hurt their peers and bring harm to himself, could spoil the furniture and other household items. Some children discord in an environment in which it is located, happy and amused. This shows that such an environment for a child is normal, so the house had just such an environment.
How to re-child struggle with the bad behavior of the child in several ways. You can try to involve him in the educational process, or play with him in developing the game. Continue reading
Who remain minor children when the parents divorce, who remains in a divorce a little child whom the court leaves the children after divorce, children in divorce in Russia
Divorce in families in which there are minor children, must be made through the court.
Who divorce have children under the law?
The family code only formally, and with only ten years of age, allowed the children to decide which parent they will remain after the divorce. But this does not deprive the parents themselves, have preserved a neutral attitude, to make a decision.
In fact, by law, parents with young children, can agree among themselves who will remain their child after divorce. And after making that decision – to fix it, execute the settlement agreement or putting the court on notice about him upon divorce.
Does the opinion of the child when the parents divorce?
In each individual case, judges take into account the point of view on this question, not only the parents and their minor children. The views of children, under 10 years, it appears from their words, the findings in relation to younger age children makes examination or the court with the participation in the process of a child psychologist.
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In front of me — pretty woman 35-40 years. The young and pleasant, and my hands were shaking and confused speech. “All my life raised him (the son), protected and supported. And he’s lying, cheating, come the morning. She says she is going to College, and he skips. No idea — what to do?”
Horoscope of the boy immediately reveals his complex character. The sun in Aquarius (an individual) in connection with Mars (his will) says that he has a fighting character who is not willing to submit to any framework. The greater the pressure, the stronger the resistance. General Aquarius is a very freedom-loving sign, and if something is banned, he will make out of spite. With him will not pass bans or strict punishment. You must give him the initiative and try as little as possible to say “no”. He needs to give freedom within reason and never deny indiscriminately.
Strong mercury is in conjunction with Neptune spoke about passion for music, namely, this area has always been considered in the house “forbidden”. The boy needs to learn to earn to life, said the Pope, and sent his son to study to become an accountant. His son was terminally boring to watch these boring figures. He used to skip classes to work as a disc jockey in a nearby club. He in his childhood he studied music at mom’s insistence, but then his classes considered unnecessary. Continue reading