Who remain minor children when the parents divorce, who remains in a divorce a little child whom the court leaves the children after divorce, children in divorce in Russia
  Divorce in families in which there are minor children, must be made through the court. Who divorce have children under the law? The family code only formally, and with…

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Who remain minor children when the parents divorce, who remains in a divorce a little child whom the court leaves the children after divorce, children in divorce in Russia
  Divorce in families in which there are minor children, must be made through the court. Who divorce have children under the law? The family code only formally, and with…

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Parenting

 

How to teach your child to apologize, as in our age of consumption to talk to children about sacrifice and what is most important in Orthodox upbringing? We talk with Dr.

pedagogical Sciences, head of chair of pedagogy of the University, the mother of three children, Tatiana enjoyed.

When you began to study Orthodox pedagogy that struck you as particularly important? Why do you have to go this direction?

Tatyana Sklyarova

When I started studying science, I was shocked by the writings of Vasily Zenkovsky. They gave a different perspective of the relationship to the person, to education, to itself. At the time I was little familiar with Orthodoxy. I Zenkovsky I read about this phrase: “the basis of a person’s identity is the image of God, who is indestructible”. So even if the man himself unrighteous lives, trying to hurt myself, to Escorial this way, he is unable to destroy it. This optimism Orthodox pedagogy inspires me.

Each parent often has his own idea of what an Orthodox upbringing. How has it changed you?

Our eldest daughter was born when I was 21, and her husband 22. We “experimented” on pedagogy and psychology. Went to her and during our neovista. The family began votserkovitsya, when the child was four years. Remember, then on our call: “Anya!” the daughter at first baptized, and then turned around. Then I thought that we overdid that we need to change Continue reading

Child gets upset when plays

 

Question: Hello! Son 7 years old, and he is very upset due to different lesions in the game, in some missions. Playing football with my dad — if it loses, in tears. Any arguments that this is a game and that daddy will not succumb, as the son of strong contender, do not work. Thus, he loses all the time — half-and-half.

The same thing: if takes to cut out a complex shape, it is impossible — in tears.

What to do with it? Soon to school, and he roars… Maria Archangorodskaja.

Meets Love Goloshchapov, child psychologist:

Question about the lack of healthy indifference to the result of their efforts. Well, let’s see.

First of all, for whom are these tears?

If the baby cries when the failure of even being alone with him, it shows his strength of feeling. High emotional stress need to lose – and they do it by tears, the most natural way.

If the baby cries only in the presence of other people is entrenched behavioural response. Speaking in Russian, loved ones react in a certain way (or reacted before) the tears of a child, and now that he wants the adults did it again, presses it into the “button” — the crying son/grandson.

That the child was given in response to my tears?

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WHY do CHILDREN LIE?

 

In front of me — pretty woman 35-40 years. The young and pleasant, and my hands were shaking and confused speech. “All my life raised him (the son), protected and supported. And he’s lying, cheating, come the morning. She says she is going to College, and he skips. No idea — what to do?”

Horoscope of the boy immediately reveals his complex character. The sun in Aquarius (an individual) in connection with Mars (his will) says that he has a fighting character who is not willing to submit to any framework. The greater the pressure, the stronger the resistance. General Aquarius is a very freedom-loving sign, and if something is banned, he will make out of spite. With him will not pass bans or strict punishment. You must give him the initiative and try as little as possible to say “no”. He needs to give freedom within reason and never deny indiscriminately.

Strong mercury is in conjunction with Neptune spoke about passion for music, namely, this area has always been considered in the house “forbidden”. The boy needs to learn to earn to life, said the Pope, and sent his son to study to become an accountant. His son was terminally boring to watch these boring figures. He used to skip classes to work as a disc jockey in a nearby club. He in his childhood he studied music at mom’s insistence, but then his classes considered unnecessary. Continue reading

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  What feels a man when he learns about his wife's pregnancy? In beautiful films happy father's showering the mother-to-million scarlet roses and love circling arms around the room. In…

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