Most often this question is raised by those parents who can’t find a common language with their child and want to influence him. Although, of course, some simply want to top up their knowledge for a better and proper upbringing of their children. This article will be useful for both.
Our website Love-911 decided to consider what you must to raise children and how to influence them so that it and we are good and useful and doesn’t break them, as individuals, what often happens when we try to influence them, and act incorrectly.
To do this you must understand: when you can impact on the child, and when he only done harm?
Let us consider an example.
You say that the child was dancing and he wants – on knitting, because he doesn’t like dancing and he loves knitting. It is defending its position, and your task is either to convince him that dancing he wants more and more useful. And indeed it is. Either accept that Your arguments it’s only Your desires, but not his.
The fact that parents often forget that the word parent is not a synonym for the words: master, commander, sir.
The parent is a friend, partner, older brother, teacher, boss.
I would like to elaborate on the word – head.
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Even educated and experienced moms sometimes bribe the child, understand though that it is bad. You promise a child to afford something that is usually not allowed. To bribery applies when you’re at the store buying your child another toy or sweets, only that he stopped complaining, and when you promise the child something (sweets, extra series of cartoons, another toy or something like that), if he does what you ask.
Many believe that such bribery is completely innocent and can do any harm. However, psychologists are sure that you nourish a child’s confidence, that’s okay-good behavior you have to pay. That is, what would the child himself dressed, you must pay that would have eaten your lunch, to put their toys, etc.
Such bribes seem to be a simple way of cooperation, but you force children to improve in the art of extortion.
If children are rewarded for simple and everyday actions, mandatory actions, they cease to strive to develop, and because for such a trifle you can get what you want. But in the future, teachers will not be rewarded for homework, the employer will not issue the award only for the fact that the employee came to work. You need to think about it and stop trying to bribe the child.
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To create a family doesn’t come easy, but even harder to keep a strong harmonious relationship in the family. Sometimes women in all ways and possibilities of trying to turn to her husband, but all attempts have failed. In this case, you can resort to incantations and prayers. Here You will find the current plots that tested any one person.
Before you take any of these rituals try to set yourself up for the positive, remove from the soul the anger, forget the insults, stop crying. Sometimes the ritual begins to act on the next day, and sometimes you have to wait. If You notice that time had passed, but the relationships don’t change, be patient and perform the ritual again or try other rituals. The main thing in this business is perseverance and patience, and I’m sure You will succeed.
A conspiracy to have her husband to her – 1
The plots for the love of the husband is used in the case, if you think that the husband you lost interest. Such plots are particularly good, if a couple get married in Church. A strong plot to the love of her husband will work even if you are not married!
This plot is quite strong and the greatest effect, it reaches a time when You make it on the growing Continue reading