We all develop
gradually, and not parents
Recognition of the benefits, success
Recognition of achievements is a technique that helps the child to master yourself
worthy and special. Draw the attention to the side
life, where he has already achieved or is achieving currently successes.
success and confidence in the here and now and inspires children to new
Recognition of the benefits, success enhances motivation.
Recognition of the benefits enhances self-esteem.
Recognition of the benefits, success strengthens self-confidence
Recognition of the benefits, success encourages children to set new
Recognition of the merits of developing a sense of responsibility.
1. Recognizing the strengths and successes of the child, approach it creatively. Advantages of your child does not necessarily have to be associated with “star” achievements or to determine that they are doing something good. Participation, effort and the joy of being useful, too, deserves recognition.
Don’t forget that achievements can be expressed not only in the diplomas and prizes.
Even educated and experienced moms sometimes bribe the child, understand though that it is bad. You promise a child to afford something that is usually not allowed. To bribery applies when you’re at the store buying your child another toy or sweets, only that he stopped complaining, and when you promise the child something (sweets, extra series of cartoons, another toy or something like that), if he does what you ask.
Many believe that such bribery is completely innocent and can do any harm. However, psychologists are sure that you nourish a child’s confidence, that’s okay-good behavior you have to pay. That is, what would the child himself dressed, you must pay that would have eaten your lunch, to put their toys, etc.
Such bribes seem to be a simple way of cooperation, but you force children to improve in the art of extortion.
If children are rewarded for simple and everyday actions, mandatory actions, they cease to strive to develop, and because for such a trifle you can get what you want. But in the future, teachers will not be rewarded for homework, the employer will not issue the award only for the fact that the employee came to work. You need to think about it and stop trying to bribe the child.
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Someone, sometime, must answer
Exposing the truth, the truth of the opening,
What is difficult children?
Here he sets before us, look,
Tightened the spring, he despaired,
Like a wall with no doors and no Windows.
Here they are, these main truths:
Late notice late… take into account…
No! Not difficult children are born!
Just in time they did not help.
To “hard” usually refers to those children that have shown some variance in moral development, the presence of fixed negative forms of behaviour, indiscipline. Difficult children do not learn, rarely and casually do their homework, often miss school. Not behave in lessons, often fight. Many of them are repeaters. Their upbringing in the family usually do little. They grow by themselves. Often forced to steal, beg. Aggressive, angry, almost familiar with the shadow side of life. Early start to smoke, drink alcohol, succumb to drug addiction. Growing up, slipping into organized groups, commit theft, robbery and even murder.
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