How to raise a child, not izbalovan it? What to do with spoiled children and what methods of rehabilitation effective?
The desire to surround your child with care and warmth, to give him all the best characteristic of all normal parents. But we want to get the gratitude, not the whims and ever-increasing requirements. How do we walk that fragile line between how to care and nurture, and to spoil?
To give the child warm, to take him in her arms, hugging and kissing, read him bedtime stories, together to play games and watch cartoons — this is normal behavior for loving parents. As to allow the child to Express their thoughts and feelings, to inspire him with confidence. If the kids want to constantly be with their parents, this does not mean that they are spoiled.
The kids with parents who often said he was the most beautiful, intelligent and the best, they begin to believe it and to convince others. It is not surprising that they are more successful in life.
How to understand whether the child is spoiled?
Pampered treat child cranky, overly pampered, which requires parents constant attention. This baby is not used to the fact that he may refuse. He gets on first demand any toy, treats, entertainment. And takes it as self-evident, not requiring even thank him.
The main symptom of the spoiled — emotional instability of the child. Continue reading
A very important period of school life – the transition from primary to secondary school. From your support of a child depends on many things: how quickly he will adapt to the new loads and new environment, will continue his self-esteem.
Naturally, with this new period and we, and our children have certain fears and hopes. And the same moments in different children can cause different reactions. Someone much more comfortable feel of previous permanent cozy classroom. For another, the move to a Cabinet system – the long-awaited freedom, welcome variety. Someone stung by parting with his beloved teacher. Another fifth-grader, perhaps, counting on a more positive, impartial attitude to his new teachers.
^ What points you should pay attention to the parents?
– The transition to high school is sometimes in the literal sense of the “new walls”. Indeed, in some schools, elementary classes are in a separate wing of a building or in a separate housing. – Some of the children and is in a new group of classmates. For example, he entered the school or moved to a specialized class.
– There is a “change status”: in elementary school, third grade-fourth graders were the most senior and skilled, Continue reading