Most often this question is raised by those parents who can’t find a common language with their child and want to influence him. Although, of course, some simply want to top up their knowledge for a better and proper upbringing of their children. This article will be useful for both.
Our website Love-911 decided to consider what you must to raise children and how to influence them so that it and we are good and useful and doesn’t break them, as individuals, what often happens when we try to influence them, and act incorrectly.
To do this you must understand: when you can impact on the child, and when he only done harm?
Let us consider an example.
You say that the child was dancing and he wants – on knitting, because he doesn’t like dancing and he loves knitting. It is defending its position, and your task is either to convince him that dancing he wants more and more useful. And indeed it is. Either accept that Your arguments it’s only Your desires, but not his.
The fact that parents often forget that the word parent is not a synonym for the words: master, commander, sir.
The parent is a friend, partner, older brother, teacher, boss.
I would like to elaborate on the word – head.
The chief – manages and provides direction, but only Continue reading
What is the effect of alcohol on conception, as reflected by its impact on the health of the unborn baby – this question bothers many. It is best to think about this long before making a decision about the pregnancy, and not a few weeks after the merry party when the test showed a positive result.
Since this question is extremely important for all expectant parents, let’s talk about the effect of alcohol on conception, and learn about its implications.
What are the dangers of “drunk conception”?
The person who is drunk, even the cells of the body are saturated with alcohol. Therefore, in the event of a merger of a saturated alcohol sperm “drunk” the egg, there will be accumulation of degenerative qualities. This will undoubtedly have a negative impact on the developing fetus, and in consequence will affect the health
a child born.
This was known in ancient times. So, for example, in ancient times in Russia did not allow the bride and groom to drink alcohol at the wedding. The laws of Ancient Rome were generally forbidden to drink alcohol to young people under 30 years.
The birth of a new life is in the process of fusion of the paternal and maternal gametes. In the process of the research, it was found that the alcohol Continue reading
Question: Hello! Son 7 years old, and he is very upset due to different lesions in the game, in some missions. Playing football with my dad — if it loses, in tears. Any arguments that this is a game and that daddy will not succumb, as the son of strong contender, do not work. Thus, he loses all the time — half-and-half.
The same thing: if takes to cut out a complex shape, it is impossible — in tears.
What to do with it? Soon to school, and he roars… Maria Archangorodskaja.
Meets Love Goloshchapov, child psychologist:
Question about the lack of healthy indifference to the result of their efforts. Well, let’s see.
First of all, for whom are these tears?
If the baby cries when the failure of even being alone with him, it shows his strength of feeling. High emotional stress need to lose – and they do it by tears, the most natural way.
If the baby cries only in the presence of other people is entrenched behavioural response. Speaking in Russian, loved ones react in a certain way (or reacted before) the tears of a child, and now that he wants the adults did it again, presses it into the “button” — the crying son/grandson.
That the child was given in response to my tears?
This is exactly what he lacks, Continue reading