For the first time faced with the lies of children, parents are asking a logical question: how do I teach my child to lie? Children lie makes us sincere bewilderment: after all, from an early age we teach our children that lying is bad! Why child began to lie? Do upbringing in vain? And most importantly – what to do now? Let’s see, what is a children’s lies: parent fiasco, bad peer influence, or simply a natural stage of growing up – and what should parents do in this situation.
Why do children lie?
First of all we should recall the definition of a lie is a deliberate distortion of the truth. A lie always conscious, so before you accuse the offspring of lying, you must be sure that he lied deliberately. The duty of parents is to distinguish when a child is lying, and when wrong. Lies are not necessarily lies in the words – silence may be no less false. To the question “who ate the candy?” — the kid answers: “did the cat” – or simply bashfully silent and looks away. Many parents believe that if the child did not utter a lie out loud, he wasn’t lying. This is not so. To can distort the truth in word and silence, and even action.
So, you have determined that the child is lying. Continue reading
The desire to quickly get rid of this unpleasant and frightening symptoms, as cough, quite naturally. When choosing methods of treatment do not forget that coughing is a protective reflex, called to “dispose” of respiratory tract infection and foreign bodies. Therefore it is important not to suppress it, and to help the respiratory system to be cleansed.
Not being able to sleep
Dry, Intrusive, “fighting” a particularly nasty cough. These feelings you’ve probably experienced more than once. What little one – day his face is red from the intense coughing, and at night the baby can not sleep? The most common cause of obsessive dry cough viscous sputum that is difficult to clear his throat. The mucous membrane of the respiratory tract, even the top (at the entrance to the larynx), is a powerful reflex area. The slightest irritation, e.g., random chips, leads to a series of aftershocks cough. Mucus from the nose or a small amount of viscous mucus, which lands on the mucous membranes of the upper respiratory tract causes coughing.
How to help? Drinking plenty of fluids, hydration of the mucous membranes of the nose and the air in the apartment already contributes to the liquefaction of sputum, and thus “wetting” of cough. Good effect inhalation (saline, alkaline water). To form a cloud of steam, use nebulisers: Continue reading
Of course, we are all adults and understand that love is. “Eternal love” — eternal love lives only in the pages of novels. It is impossible to be eternally in love, catch views of the second half, to miss you when I needed somebody you love. Love passes remain the habit, the habit of living together.
And well, when people stay close, understand each other, compromise – after all, family life consists of everyday problems, issues, events – love is and remains a family life.
However, sometimes new passion tears off the head of one of the spouses, the person again falls in love and can’t live without the second half.
“Love let go” — the old adage goes. Decent people get divorced, get divorced and remain friends. But, if a married couple ties the child – divorce bude not easy. Of course, legally, things will be much harder, but more importantly, for any loving parent, to help overcome mental trauma to the child.
But the mental trauma will undoubtedly be, and to neglect it does not. Almost an adult 15-17 years of age is difficult to accept the idea that your dad (most often it happens, apologize to the decent men) well, mom went to live with another aunt/uncle. And even more to tell this to a little child why daddy no longer live together, and will only come on Sundays. “NO! IT’S MY DAD!” — why the kid to share his DAD with Continue reading