10 forbidden phrases in the child's upbringing
There are two areas where many consider themselves experts, despite the lack of education: medicine and psychology. But try to fix the TV? Because there are much fewer parts. That's…

Continue reading →

The child's Behavior is mirroring the relationship of the parents
  To help parents in the upbringing of cultural behavior among children; to help them see their deficiencies in the process of education and to find ways of addressing them.…

Continue reading →

desire

1 2 3 8

Center of additional education of children – Tips for parents

 

We all develop

gradually, and not parents

exception.

Recognition of the benefits, success

Recognition of achievements is a technique that helps the child to master yourself

worthy and special. Draw the attention to the side

life, where he has already achieved or is achieving currently successes.

success and confidence in the here and now and inspires children to new

accomplishments.

Recognition of the benefits, success enhances motivation.

Recognition of the benefits enhances self-esteem.

Recognition of the benefits, success strengthens self-confidence

Recognition of the benefits, success encourages children to set new

goal.

Recognition of the merits of developing a sense of responsibility.

1. Recognizing the strengths and successes of the child, approach it creatively. Advantages of your child does not necessarily have to be associated with “star” achievements or to determine that they are doing something good. Participation, effort and the joy of being useful, too, deserves recognition.

Don’t forget that achievements can be expressed not only in the diplomas and prizes.

Continue reading

Parenting practices and the impact on children

 

Most often this question is raised by those parents who can’t find a common language with their child and want to influence him. Although, of course, some simply want to top up their knowledge for a better and proper upbringing of their children. This article will be useful for both.

Our website Love-911 decided to consider what you must to raise children and how to influence them so that it and we are good and useful and doesn’t break them, as individuals, what often happens when we try to influence them, and act incorrectly.

To do this you must understand: when you can impact on the child, and when he only done harm?

Let us consider an example.

You say that the child was dancing and he wants – on knitting, because he doesn’t like dancing and he loves knitting. It is defending its position, and your task is either to convince him that dancing he wants more and more useful. And indeed it is. Either accept that Your arguments it’s only Your desires, but not his.

The fact that parents often forget that the word parent is not a synonym for the words: master, commander, sir.

The parent is a friend, partner, older brother, teacher, boss.

I would like to elaborate on the word – head.

The chief – manages and provides direction, but only Continue reading

Child gets upset when plays

 

Question: Hello! Son 7 years old, and he is very upset due to different lesions in the game, in some missions. Playing football with my dad — if it loses, in tears. Any arguments that this is a game and that daddy will not succumb, as the son of strong contender, do not work. Thus, he loses all the time — half-and-half.

The same thing: if takes to cut out a complex shape, it is impossible — in tears.

What to do with it? Soon to school, and he roars… Maria Archangorodskaja.

Meets Love Goloshchapov, child psychologist:

Question about the lack of healthy indifference to the result of their efforts. Well, let’s see.

First of all, for whom are these tears?

If the baby cries when the failure of even being alone with him, it shows his strength of feeling. High emotional stress need to lose – and they do it by tears, the most natural way.

If the baby cries only in the presence of other people is entrenched behavioural response. Speaking in Russian, loved ones react in a certain way (or reacted before) the tears of a child, and now that he wants the adults did it again, presses it into the “button” — the crying son/grandson.

That the child was given in response to my tears?

This is exactly what he lacks, Continue reading

1 2 3 8
From Russia – with a child
  To adopt a Russian child, without parental care, German mom and dad are ready to wait for years and to part with big money "the Law of Dima Yakovlev",…

...

Poor, inadequate behavior of the child in kindergarten: how to re-baby
If your child misbehaves in kindergarten - most likely a consequence of education. If parents do not pay enough attention to the child, then it is because of this lack…

Continue reading →