Even educated and experienced moms sometimes bribe the child, understand though that it is bad. You promise a child to afford something that is usually not allowed. To bribery applies when you’re at the store buying your child another toy or sweets, only that he stopped complaining, and when you promise the child something (sweets, extra series of cartoons, another toy or something like that), if he does what you ask.
Many believe that such bribery is completely innocent and can do any harm. However, psychologists are sure that you nourish a child’s confidence, that’s okay-good behavior you have to pay. That is, what would the child himself dressed, you must pay that would have eaten your lunch, to put their toys, etc.
Such bribes seem to be a simple way of cooperation, but you force children to improve in the art of extortion.
If children are rewarded for simple and everyday actions, mandatory actions, they cease to strive to develop, and because for such a trifle you can get what you want. But in the future, teachers will not be rewarded for homework, the employer will not issue the award only for the fact that the employee came to work. You need to think about it and stop trying to bribe the child.
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I have this situacija.Recently divorced her husband.He lived for 7 years with two children.It turned out that he had in the last two years was another woman who bore him a child.Before her were the women,some I knew about some learned just now.The loyalty he not trialsa.I couldn’t leave,maybe I was with two children in the decree,had nowhere to go,suffered.The husband in the lives of children not particularly delved,he had five minutes chatting,and then he dug into the Internet or left.
Now. This was his last woman tried to get in touch with me,through the front pages in social networks wrote me an insulting message,trying,apparently,to tell me about the baby.Back then I didn’t know,asked her husband to explain.He said it was wrong.
In the end,information about the child it dawned on me.The child recognized.
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Of course, we are all adults and understand that love is. “Eternal love” — eternal love lives only in the pages of novels. It is impossible to be eternally in love, catch views of the second half, to miss you when I needed somebody you love. Love passes remain the habit, the habit of living together.
And well, when people stay close, understand each other, compromise – after all, family life consists of everyday problems, issues, events – love is and remains a family life.
However, sometimes new passion tears off the head of one of the spouses, the person again falls in love and can’t live without the second half.
“Love let go” — the old adage goes. Decent people get divorced, get divorced and remain friends. But, if a married couple ties the child – divorce bude not easy. Of course, legally, things will be much harder, but more importantly, for any loving parent, to help overcome mental trauma to the child.
But the mental trauma will undoubtedly be, and to neglect it does not. Almost an adult 15-17 years of age is difficult to accept the idea that your dad (most often it happens, apologize to the decent men) well, mom went to live with another aunt/uncle. And even more to tell this to a little child why daddy no longer live together, and will only come on Sundays. “NO! IT’S MY DAD!” — why the kid to share his DAD with Continue reading