Even educated and experienced moms sometimes bribe the child, understand though that it is bad. You promise a child to afford something that is usually not allowed. To bribery applies when you’re at the store buying your child another toy or sweets, only that he stopped complaining, and when you promise the child something (sweets, extra series of cartoons, another toy or something like that), if he does what you ask.
Many believe that such bribery is completely innocent and can do any harm. However, psychologists are sure that you nourish a child’s confidence, that’s okay-good behavior you have to pay. That is, what would the child himself dressed, you must pay that would have eaten your lunch, to put their toys, etc.
Such bribes seem to be a simple way of cooperation, but you force children to improve in the art of extortion.
If children are rewarded for simple and everyday actions, mandatory actions, they cease to strive to develop, and because for such a trifle you can get what you want. But in the future, teachers will not be rewarded for homework, the employer will not issue the award only for the fact that the employee came to work. You need to think about it and stop trying to bribe the child.
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Someone, sometime, must answer
Exposing the truth, the truth of the opening,
What is difficult children?
Here he sets before us, look,
Tightened the spring, he despaired,
Like a wall with no doors and no Windows.
Here they are, these main truths:
Late notice late… take into account…
No! Not difficult children are born!
Just in time they did not help.
To “hard” usually refers to those children that have shown some variance in moral development, the presence of fixed negative forms of behaviour, indiscipline. Difficult children do not learn, rarely and casually do their homework, often miss school. Not behave in lessons, often fight. Many of them are repeaters. Their upbringing in the family usually do little. They grow by themselves. Often forced to steal, beg. Aggressive, angry, almost familiar with the shadow side of life. Early start to smoke, drink alcohol, succumb to drug addiction. Growing up, slipping into organized groups, commit theft, robbery and even murder.
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Sex education for girls
A girl entering puberty, you need to inform in advance of the appearance of menstruation, possible premenstrual nervousness (irritability, mood change). She often wants to get out, “out”, trusts innermost thoughts only to the diary. Others are often concerned about breaking her rudeness, tearfulness, injustice. But before this, the girl was distinguished by moderation, gentleness, openly expressed good feelings towards parents. What is the explanation of this break-up?
The observed changes are not mandatory satellites puberty, and even more cannot and should not be resistant nature. Much, very much depends on the girls, how they will learn to control himself. Of course, irritability, resentment, and other such phenomena – frequent symptoms of the transition period, the result of changes in the nervous and endocrine systems. We must try to do so that others do not suffer from this. It is important to learn to manage their feelings, to smile, even when difficult. Otherwise it is difficult to establish a rapport with others, to defuse its own tensions.
Approximately 18 years girls become sexually Mature, i.e., capable of performing complex specific functions of the female body – motherhood. From awkward Continue reading