How to teach your child to apologize, as in our age of consumption to talk to children about sacrifice and what is most important in Orthodox upbringing? We talk with Dr.
pedagogical Sciences, head of chair of pedagogy of the University, the mother of three children, Tatiana enjoyed.
When you began to study Orthodox pedagogy that struck you as particularly important? Why do you have to go this direction?
When I started studying science, I was shocked by the writings of Vasily Zenkovsky. They gave a different perspective of the relationship to the person, to education, to itself. At the time I was little familiar with Orthodoxy. I Zenkovsky I read about this phrase: “the basis of a person’s identity is the image of God, who is indestructible”. So even if the man himself unrighteous lives, trying to hurt myself, to Escorial this way, he is unable to destroy it. This optimism Orthodox pedagogy inspires me.
Each parent often has his own idea of what an Orthodox upbringing. How has it changed you?
Our eldest daughter was born when I was 21, and her husband 22. We “experimented” on pedagogy and psychology. Went to her and during our neovista. The family began votserkovitsya, when the child was four years. Remember, then on our call: “Anya!” the daughter at first baptized, and then turned around. Then I thought that we overdid that we need to change Continue reading
What feels a man when he learns about his wife’s pregnancy? In beautiful films happy father’s showering the mother-to-million scarlet roses and love circling arms around the room. In fact, as a rule, the man, of course, pleased and proud, but slightly confused. He understands that big changes are coming in their measured and established life, but still have not idea what is coming.
Often wife’s pregnancy is perceived as a disease. By the way, our society actively supports this idea. Not by chance in the antenatal clinic in the heading “diagnosis” wrote: “pregnancy is, the period of so-and-so”.
Often, the future Pope believes that its role in the reproduction of offspring, he had performed, and now removed, since man is not the case – to go to the doctors and consultations, as well as to study the characteristics of prenatal development of the baby, not to mention how to attend the birth.
You put up with it or maybe you gnawing resentment, reinforced by the hormonal changes of pregnancy (after all a woman in this period is especially sensitive and sentimental)? It is very important to understand: your husband are motivated not so much an unwillingness Continue reading
Encourage the child to tell you about their school Affairs. Do not limit your interest in the usual type of question: “How was your day at school?” Each week, choose a time free from household chores, and carefully talk with your child about school.
Remember individual names, events, and details about which child tells you use them in the future to start a similar conversation about the school. Also, be sure to ask your child about his classmates, in the classroom, school subjects, teachers.
Regularly talk with your child’s teachers about his academic performance, behavior and relationships with other children. Without hesitation, speak to a teacher, if you feel that you don’t know about the school life of your child or about his problems with school, or on the relationship of his school and home problems. Even if no particular cause for concern, consult with your child’s teacher at least once in two months.
During any conversations with the teacher will Express our desire to do everything possible in order to improve the school life of the child. If you and the teacher have serious disagreements, make every effort to peacefully resolve them, even if I have to talk to the headmaster. Otherwise, you can accidentally put the baby in an awkward position of choosing between Continue reading