Someone, sometime, must answer
Exposing the truth, the truth of the opening,
What is difficult children?
Here he sets before us, look,
Tightened the spring, he despaired,
Like a wall with no doors and no Windows.
Here they are, these main truths:
Late notice late… take into account…
No! Not difficult children are born!
Just in time they did not help.
To “hard” usually refers to those children that have shown some variance in moral development, the presence of fixed negative forms of behaviour, indiscipline. Difficult children do not learn, rarely and casually do their homework, often miss school. Not behave in lessons, often fight. Many of them are repeaters. Their upbringing in the family usually do little. They grow by themselves. Often forced to steal, beg. Aggressive, angry, almost familiar with the shadow side of life. Early start to smoke, drink alcohol, succumb to drug addiction. Growing up, slipping into organized groups, commit theft, robbery and even murder.
Children often Continue reading
Of course, we are all adults and understand that love is. “Eternal love” — eternal love lives only in the pages of novels. It is impossible to be eternally in love, catch views of the second half, to miss you when I needed somebody you love. Love passes remain the habit, the habit of living together.
And well, when people stay close, understand each other, compromise – after all, family life consists of everyday problems, issues, events – love is and remains a family life.
However, sometimes new passion tears off the head of one of the spouses, the person again falls in love and can’t live without the second half.
“Love let go” — the old adage goes. Decent people get divorced, get divorced and remain friends. But, if a married couple ties the child – divorce bude not easy. Of course, legally, things will be much harder, but more importantly, for any loving parent, to help overcome mental trauma to the child.
But the mental trauma will undoubtedly be, and to neglect it does not. Almost an adult 15-17 years of age is difficult to accept the idea that your dad (most often it happens, apologize to the decent men) well, mom went to live with another aunt/uncle. And even more to tell this to a little child why daddy no longer live together, and will only come on Sundays. “NO! IT’S MY DAD!” — why the kid to share his DAD with Continue reading
We all learned that the teachers of the child are adults: parents, relatives, teachers in kindergarten, the teachers at the school. They all play a huge role in the socialization of the child. However, not so long ago it was noticed that the child’s peers: classmates in kindergarten, classmates at school, comrades in the yard are also a kind of educators of the child’s personality.
Usually adults perceive their peers of their children and their impact on the child is simply a fact.
That is, parents do not think much about how children raise each other.
Those who still think, in their own way relate to this. Some use it to make the child accustomed to the child’s team. As often happens with children, who never drove in kindergarten, and the year before school give there. Others, however, generally try to protect the child, for example, from street of communication. These children, as a rule, try to fill in useful activities.
Adults themselves pretty quickly forget their own child’s game. And don’t give out your child sitting in them. And the children begin to search for their games where parents can see them.
Thus, the children formed their own “subculture”. It has the features: Continue reading