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How to get rid of the habit to bribe the child or wish that he would listen.
  Even educated and experienced moms sometimes bribe the child, understand though that it is bad. You promise a child to afford something that is usually not allowed. To bribery…

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The Temperament of the child – Development and parenting – Parents – articles Directory

Select the description that most closely matches the behavior of your child.

1. As usual your little one responds to the comments of the parents (or teachers)?

A. Promises, swears that this is the last time, but soon again does the same thing.

B. is Angry, resentful and eventually go his own way.

V. Quietly pleads guilty.

G. Offended, upset, crying.

2. As your child enters situations that require quick and decisive action?

A. It instantly covers the excitement.

B. Acts fast and vigorously.

V. behaves calmly and intently.

G. Acts hesitantly, timidly.

3. What behavioral line child adheres to a dispute with their peers?

A. makes its points, but it tries to take into account the opinions of others.

B. Excited, get angry, no one wants to listen.

V. Says confidently, without much emotion, consistent in the presentation of his thoughts.

G. behaves very hesitantly.

4. How your child behaves, being in an unfamiliar environment, a new place (e.g., in a doctor’s office).

A. Quickly adapts to new circumstances, behaves animatedly, showing interest in his surroundings.

B. Quickly excited, sometimes nervous.

V. Quietly eyeing an unusual situation.

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Child gets upset when plays

 

Question: Hello! Son 7 years old, and he is very upset due to different lesions in the game, in some missions. Playing football with my dad — if it loses, in tears. Any arguments that this is a game and that daddy will not succumb, as the son of strong contender, do not work. Thus, he loses all the time — half-and-half.

The same thing: if takes to cut out a complex shape, it is impossible — in tears.

What to do with it? Soon to school, and he roars… Maria Archangorodskaja.

Meets Love Goloshchapov, child psychologist:

Question about the lack of healthy indifference to the result of their efforts. Well, let’s see.

First of all, for whom are these tears?

If the baby cries when the failure of even being alone with him, it shows his strength of feeling. High emotional stress need to lose – and they do it by tears, the most natural way.

If the baby cries only in the presence of other people is entrenched behavioural response. Speaking in Russian, loved ones react in a certain way (or reacted before) the tears of a child, and now that he wants the adults did it again, presses it into the “button” — the crying son/grandson.

That the child was given in response to my tears?

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The Influence of styles of family education on children’s personality development

Today, the family acts as an important factor in personality development. Here the child is born, he receives an initial knowledge about the world and first experience.

Feature of family education is the fact that the family constitutes a mixed-age social group there are representatives of two, three and sometimes four generations. This means different values, different evaluation criteria the phenomena of life, different ideals, opinions, beliefs, and allows you to create some traditions.

Family education is organically connected with the whole life of a growing person. In the family the child is included in the vital activities through all its stages: from basic attempts to pick up a spoon to hammer a nail) to complex social and personal significant forms of behavior.

Family education also has a wide time range effects: it continues throughout a person’s life, occurs at any time of day, any time of the year.

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How to raise a child, not izbalovan it? What to do with spoiled children and what methods of rehabilitation effective?
The desire to surround your child with care and warmth, to give him all the best characteristic of all normal parents. But we want to get the gratitude, not the…

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