The child's Behavior is mirroring the relationship of the parents
  To help parents in the upbringing of cultural behavior among children; to help them see their deficiencies in the process of education and to find ways of addressing them.…

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Psychology. Consultation with a psychologist. Socionics
    I have this situacija.Recently divorced her husband.He lived for 7 years with two children.It turned out that he had in the last two years was another woman who…

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achieve

Center of additional education of children – Tips for parents

 

We all develop

gradually, and not parents

exception.

Recognition of the benefits, success

Recognition of achievements is a technique that helps the child to master yourself

worthy and special. Draw the attention to the side

life, where he has already achieved or is achieving currently successes.

success and confidence in the here and now and inspires children to new

accomplishments.

Recognition of the benefits, success enhances motivation.

Recognition of the benefits enhances self-esteem.

Recognition of the benefits, success strengthens self-confidence

Recognition of the benefits, success encourages children to set new

goal.

Recognition of the merits of developing a sense of responsibility.

1. Recognizing the strengths and successes of the child, approach it creatively. Advantages of your child does not necessarily have to be associated with “star” achievements or to determine that they are doing something good. Participation, effort and the joy of being useful, too, deserves recognition.

Don’t forget that achievements can be expressed not only in the diplomas and prizes.

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Child gets upset when plays

 

Question: Hello! Son 7 years old, and he is very upset due to different lesions in the game, in some missions. Playing football with my dad — if it loses, in tears. Any arguments that this is a game and that daddy will not succumb, as the son of strong contender, do not work. Thus, he loses all the time — half-and-half.

The same thing: if takes to cut out a complex shape, it is impossible — in tears.

What to do with it? Soon to school, and he roars… Maria Archangorodskaja.

Meets Love Goloshchapov, child psychologist:

Question about the lack of healthy indifference to the result of their efforts. Well, let’s see.

First of all, for whom are these tears?

If the baby cries when the failure of even being alone with him, it shows his strength of feeling. High emotional stress need to lose – and they do it by tears, the most natural way.

If the baby cries only in the presence of other people is entrenched behavioural response. Speaking in Russian, loved ones react in a certain way (or reacted before) the tears of a child, and now that he wants the adults did it again, presses it into the “button” — the crying son/grandson.

That the child was given in response to my tears?

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The Influence of styles of family education on children’s personality development

Today, the family acts as an important factor in personality development. Here the child is born, he receives an initial knowledge about the world and first experience.

Feature of family education is the fact that the family constitutes a mixed-age social group there are representatives of two, three and sometimes four generations. This means different values, different evaluation criteria the phenomena of life, different ideals, opinions, beliefs, and allows you to create some traditions.

Family education is organically connected with the whole life of a growing person. In the family the child is included in the vital activities through all its stages: from basic attempts to pick up a spoon to hammer a nail) to complex social and personal significant forms of behavior.

Family education also has a wide time range effects: it continues throughout a person’s life, occurs at any time of day, any time of the year.

Family climate is the life of the parents, their relationship, family spirit. Children rudeness, callousness, indifference, indiscipline, usually Continue reading

Secondary school No. 1 - Report on work with troubled Teens and dysfunctional families
    Someone, sometime, must answer Exposing the truth, the truth of the opening, What is difficult children? Here he sets before us, look, Tightened the spring, he despaired, Like…

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Children of the Nikolaev streets
This summer only in the Central area of the city of Nikolaev detained 62 of a teenager for various offenses Dog dragged through the yard cuts of meat. Were is…

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